This web site exists to help you explore ways that others have used to find companions, partners, and spouses. Hear stories from others on successes and tips for enjoying your life. Start to identify how you can develop your own search and have fun learning.



"This is a good, positive, practical approach to the subject."
"Good incentive to start dating again."
"A lot of insights, and a lot of encouragement. Some fresh ideas.".
"To learn how to meet people and to present yourself."
"Provides support and encouragement."
"Gives you the preparation needed to start seriously dating again."
"Very valuable for support of singles and helps them solidify important factors."


Who are we? Perhaps like you, we found ourselves alone, yet not wanting to be alone.    We explored ways and ideas of finding the right person for ourselves and we want to help you and others who may be searching.  We have been married for 535 days (as of 2007).  That means we are still exploring a relationship and all that it brings!  

We are mature adults.  We are not in school settings where there are many people to meet with naturally.  But, even in those settings. people have told us, it isn't always easy to find the right person.  Whatever your circumstances, we believe that fundamentally  the search process is very similar for all of us.

Finally, we have taught the ideas we learned about finding a mate in courses in communities and in churches.  Participants encouraged us to write a guidebook as a companion to our workshops and that will be available on this web site in the near future, as a guide you can use on your own.

May you find the happiness you are seeking!

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